1 Where has your lover gone,
2 My lover has gone down to his garden,
3 My lover is mine, and I am his;
4 My love, you are lovely
5 Turn your eyes away from me
6 Your teeth are like sheep
7 Your cheeks behind your veil
8 Sixty queens, eighty concubines,
9 but my dove, my perfect one,
10 “Who is this coming like the dawn,
11 I went to the nut orchard
12 Before I became aware of it,
My lover is mine, and I am his. How far we are from Moses after ten centuries of salvation history! (For Deuteronomy which also speaks of love, attributes to Moses more than he actually said.) Here we find the message of the great prophets. Let us remember, however, that for them, the bride-to-be, the spouse, is always the collective Israel. Only in the Christian community (but already in certain psalms), the Bible will be read as the history of the personal love of God for his people: those he has known beforehand and sanctified.
If God reveals himself as Love and Lover, it is not a way of speaking; he tells us what is his very nature. God's eternity is a feast of love, with its constant creativity from which proceed the Persons of the Son and the Spirit constantly reabsorbed into the joy of this union. Often we hesitate to think and to express it, so obsessed are we by the idea that if God is infinitely great, he must be, to begin with, a gentleman according to our fixed ideas, a great scholar, of course, and a great engineer as well.
Compare 6:8-9 with psalm 45. This psalm was probably not written on the occasion of a king's marriage, but, with the imagery of a royal wedding, it spoke of the inauguration of the Messiah's reign. The Queens and the favorites are the pagan nations who submit to the Messiah-King; in no way will they prevent Israel from remaining unique.
But my dove, my perfect one, is unique (6:9). Fitting for Israel and fitting also for whoever has received marks of God's special love. All are loved "in Christ" and some infinitely more than others who have received only one talent. Each one, however, is loved with a unique love which makes that person feel he/she is special, as if ignoring what others might have received even if they be Apostles or Our Lady. Love cannot but be jealous, even if there is no place for jealousy in the kingdom of God.
